Communication with honesty
Today, David and I started our day with bad mood at the begging of day.

And we started to take a walk together on the beach side but we couldn't walk together at all.

We walked at a different pace by self and we could finish walking at our parking place which David parked his car near the beach.


Something wrong happened to us inside or our hearts but we couldn't find any solution until we came back to home after our walking.

I suggested him to write down 3 topics on a paper how to focus on each heart to recover our relationship and to fix our feeling.


David looked not good feeling at the begging of the writing still, but I prayed that this writing method would help us anyhow.

This writing method is called, "NAIKAN (in Japanese)"="Introspection" and it is based on psychological approach for each heart to find our really needs of mind.


After we finished writing, we started to share with each writing and communicate each other to understand more & better.

And suddenly, my tears came out from my both eyes and it couldn't help stopping at all.

I don't know what happened to my heart but David's message moved me inside deeply and my heart needed to cry with tears.


And I communicate with David with honesty and pure heart and we could understand each other more than before.

Our bad situation of this morning was over and it meant to happen to us to communicate each other later.


After my tears stopped enough I cried a lot, I felt clearer than before inside of my heart.

And David went to work after our deep communication and we had better feeling each other to fix our bad mood with honest communication.


To communicate each other with honesty is essential part of our marriage life.

But sometimes I became so be afraid that my words might be hurt David unconsciously, so I don't want to talk to him with noble silence.

To keep so long silence is not good for David and I will try sharing my heart more than before, because I learned a lot today.


Anyway, I want to be more better myself to learn my life with David.

Sometimes we will have a hard time but we need to communicate more than before not to misunderstand each other again...
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繋がり&恵みに感謝し、体験や学びをシェアします‼!Mind・Body・Soulの調和を保つ様、Yoga&Holisic life&Vegitarianで心身の調和&平安を願う…恵みを享受し、この生命を活かす事が私の歓び‼

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Author:Masuda Keiko (増田佳子)
ヨーガに出会い、あらゆる縁や繋がりに感謝する日々。
YOGA=生きる道であり、"How to"でもある…。

Vegitarian・Holistic&Natural cure&Detoxが、各々の心と身体の調和と平安に役立てるツールとなりうると、自らの体験や学びを通じて日々実感中…。

私の学んだ全てが他者の幸せに繋がる、何か氣づきのきっかけになれるのであれば、それが本当にありがたい幸せです!

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YOGA, Detox adviser , Aroma therapy, Natural therapist by my foot technique, Vipassana meditation, and Vegetarian cooking based on Macrobiotics...
ヨーガ、デトックスアドバイザー、アロマセラピー、自然療法家(足技による全身施術)、ヴィパッサナー瞑想、マクロビオテッィクスに基づいたベジタリアン料理…。

These are my tools for others in this world to share with me.
これらが、この世で私が他者と共有する為に、これまで学んできた私のツールです。

I recommend eating Vegetarian foods as a daily diet to keep our body & mind & spirit balanced in peace at neutral state always through my experience.
私は自らの学びから、身体と心とソウルのバランスを平安にし、ニュートラルな状態に保つ為には、日常は野菜中心の食生活を推奨します。

My learning & experiences can make use of other's interest & welln-vbeing somehow, I hope...
私の学びや経験が、誰か必要としている方にとって、何かのきっかけづくりに少しでも役立てることを願っています。

If you are interest in my activity,
please let me know and send me some message.
もしあなたが私の活動に興味を持ったら、メッセージを下さいね。

I believe that my mission of this life is contribution to let this universe be peaceful more and better after each mind, body and spirit balanced by my tools with benevolence...,from the bottom of my heart.
私がこの世に生まれた使命は、常に慈しみの心を以って、この世をより平安に、そしてより良くする様、自らが貢献することだと心の底から信じています。

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